Relationships

Why is trying to have a relationship with someone so hard. We have the awkward three second meet at a party or the infamous introduction form a friend. Then your new prospect and yourself have a few conversation over text and you move on to the long conversations on the phone or hanging out. At this point you know a little about the person and wanting to know more. Usually at this point a relationship can go two ways. Way one is you two go on to become boyfriend/girlfriend or friend. Opposed to all other statics BYU my be the only place where a girl might want to marry you in the first 10 minutes of your relationship but that's not the point. My question to ever person of the opposite sex is why do you dream of the perfect man to be with. Then say all the attributes that you want in a man. Look around the room and never realize that the person your looking for is in front of you the whole time but you look past that person because of maybe one thing. All I say is that no one person is an exact match and you look at couples who portray this perfect relationship and that's what you want but believe this no one person is perfect and that couple works to be that way and that is marriage. One chance is a model to go with and if that person screws up that chance then move on. A quote I love is "Love is putting your heart out to a person and then trusting that they won't break it." Unknown. Setting yourself of for failure is the way to grow because you never know if that person you overlook in a room is the person you could have eternal joy with.